Monday, August 17, 2009

We're having a BOY!!!!

We had our scan today and the technician was able to tell right away that we are having a boy!! I was about 80% sure that it would be a boy because I have been feeling so well. I've heard that people are generally more nauseous with girls. Of course we are very excited and it was really cool to get a good look at Junior. The technician was really great and spent about 30-40 minutes with us and showed us the heart, the feet, the hands, the spine...everything. The doctor reviewed everything and said it all looked good. Here are a few of the pictures we were given. Two profile shots and one foot.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

An Open Letter to ESPN Regarding Michael Vick

I think there are a lot of sportscasters out there who are missing out on an opportunity. Over and over I've heard people say that Michael Vick shouldn't be allowed to have an opportunity to play in the NFL or that he's not remorseful enough for having been involved in dog fighting. Well, here's what I think. I think he made a huge error in judgement to have gotten involved in dog fighting and to have taken things to the extremes that he did. He got caught. He was prosecuted. He served time in jail. He probably suffered more than an average Joe would have had they been punished for the same crime. Vick essentially fell from a very high, very public, very lucrative pinnacle.

So now that he's out of jail and the Eagles have signed him, I really think that this would be an excellent opportunity for America to show how we are able to forgive and allow people to have second chances. Sportscasters are denying us the opportunity to freely forgive by posing these kinds of questions. I could maybe see people get skeptical if an accountant were convicted for embezzling funds from a company and was now seeking a position with the FDIC. I really don't have a problem with Michael Vick having been convicted for dog fighting and now seeking employment with the NFL. To me, they're completely unrelated, so I wish him well. I think baseball players who have been caught doing steroids are more likely to recommit such crimes than Michael Vick.

I also have opinions about PETA. I have very little respect for this organization. There has been a lot of talk and speculation pertaining to potential PETA protests at upcoming Eagles games. I can tell you right now that if there are protests, I will have even LESS respect for PETA. I don't like their outrageous tactics and I think they do more harm than good sometimes.

That being said, I don't agree with the idea of Michael Vick becoming a spokesperson for stopping dog fighting. It just seems...contrived and a little wrong. I'm glad that he wants to stand for reform, but it just makes me uncomfortable to think of him helping animals. It seems like he was told that this is the best way to restore his reputation. To me, it's tantamount to a pedophile getting released from prison and volunteering at a local elementary school. A little too weird.

Reunions

Last month we went to Utah and Idaho for family reunions on both sides of our families. The first family reunion we went to was for Andy's side of the family and we ended up in Montpelier ID. Andy's aunt and uncle and several cousins live there. They were quite influential in building and running the Oregon/California Trail Center there. I was really impressed. I wasn't sure what to expect, but I can honestly say I was blown away.
The center has a tour where you can learn about how the pioneers lived and the challenges they faced. The tour ends up in a room with covered wagons circled around where we ate dinner. It was really well done. The food was great and the whole experience was really interesting. It was a lot of fun to get to know more of Andy's cousins.

One of the highlights of the evening was singing karaoke with everyone. Of course Andy did not disappoint. He not only sang the Macarena (with a large group of "fly girls") but he also danced to Billy Jean. Michael Jackson would have been so proud.
Later that week, we went to a family reunion on my side of the family in Elba, Idaho--near Oakley, Idaho. It's pretty impressive how many small Idaho towns we were able to visit for our reunions. We camped at the Twin Sisters campsite in Rock City. The irony is that there were 4 sets of twins there. One of my cousins brought his rock climbing gear and we were able to go rock climbing. I even went, much to the chagrin, of my dad who didn't want his grandchild dangling from a rope 100 feet up in the air. (This isn't the best angle, but at least it's from far away.)
My cousin had prepared a slide show of pictures of our relatives and places they lived. Not only was it interesting, but I was impressed that he was able to operate a computer, projector etc in the middle of nowhere using his car battery for power. Pretty slick. My great, great grandfather, Evan Davies Jones, died in Elba and as part of the reunion, we placed a headstone on his unmarked grave. We also drove in to Oakley, ID where a few more relatives lived and were buried.

This is my brother and his son who have carried on a family tradition of having the initials of A. G. S. as they are standing next to the headstone of my great grandfather, Adam Gibson Smith.
I wanted to include one other picture of my nieces and nephew. It was a little difficult to get them all to smile at the camera at the same time, but it was a lot easier to get them to make funny faces at the camera!!

Saturday, August 15, 2009

T-shirts

So last month we had a family reunion and I had a wonderful time making t-shirts for my side of the family. If nothing else, I had a lot of fun making them and they were great conversation starters at the family reunion. Here's how they turned out...

I kill you. I thought it was particularly entertaining when she was wearing her "I kill you." shirt while walking around the campsite in the dark with a sword and a big ole grin on her face.

This sea food is making me sea sick!

Oh! For Pete's Sake! (picture: Peter Brady)

That really gripes me!

Toothfairy Swindler
I neeeeeed you!
This sea food is making me sea sick!

I'm glad I didn’t grow up in a small town like this one. (picture: “Welcome to Laie, HI Population 4,500)
Don't punch your brother, you'll give him cancer!

When I say "jump," you ask "how high" on the way down!
Jam and Jelly and a PUNCH in the Belly!

I'm gunna bougainvillea your face!
I'm in the beans and I'm heading west.
This is a little trick I learned in the Army.

We're going to the Greatest Show On Earth. Star Wars?!
Dude! What the heck?
I'm a mighty fine girl. And cute, too!

A Kitty!
Are you sure it's broken? Yes, I'm sure!

I didn't get pictures of Crystal's shirt, "I've been a trooper today; I was expecting a nap!" and Ben's (he was AWOL) "Spatially Challenged Engineer".

Happy (early) Birthday!

Andy's birthday is coming up and since we will be traveling and won't be together for his actual birthday, I took him out to dinner at Ruth's Chris tonight. We had a great time. Of course the food was excellent.
I feel so lucky to be married to a such a wonderful guy. Andy is always ready and willing to make me laugh. On more than one occasion, he has taken the opportunity to dance in the car's headlights in a semi-empty parking lot just to entertain me. People have made comments to me that they can't imagine anyone not liking Andy or that I have married "someone very special". I have to agree. Andy is one of the most gregarious people I know. He has really made a big difference in our ward as the Elders Quorum President and I'm proud of the person he is and the person he is becoming. It will certainly be a lot of fun to raise "Junior" together with him.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Fire!

Andy and I went to Utah and Idaho in July for some family reunions. While on our way to the airport, we stopped off at a Salt Lake City fire station to see my brother, Stephen.

He showed us around the firehouse and I felt like we had been given the royal elementary school tour. He even gave us a great demonstration on how to get dressed up like a fireman--ready to fight fires. Of course Andy was his muse and Andy was all too willing to put on the official garb. He will do ANYTHING to entertain me! I must admit, however, that I was quite relieved that the fire alarm didn't go off while Andy was dressed up and he didn't have to pull a Kramer and go fight a fire at the last minute.

Am I going to inherit a cow??

I'm on my way home from a conference for work that was held in St. Petersburg Florida. (I'm actually in the Charlotte airport right now waiting for my flight home.) During one of the breaks, the hotel provided us with a variety of cookies and milk. I was quite taken aback by the name of the company that produced the milk...
Velda Farms. I had no idea that my grandma was involved in a farm all the way in Florida!

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Great Expectations!!

As many of you already know, Andy and I are expecting our first baby on January 14, 2010 (although I'd like to aim for 01-10-10...if nature is kind enough to take requests). I had an appointment yesterday and the doctor listened to the heartbeat and said that everything seems to be progressing just fine. I had scans done at 6 and 8 weeks and the baby has been growing at a normal pace.
Needless to say we are very excited and know that our lives will be forever changed. I feel extra fortunate because I have been feeling so well. I honestly thought that one of the ways women knew they were pregnant was when they woke up one day and had to throw up! I assumed that EVERYONE threw up as one of the first signs of pregnancy. I think there were a couple days in Paris where I felt a little nauseous, and I think that's because of the time changes and the difficulty in being able to eat immediately after you wake up when you're traveling. So I can honestly say that I have no major complaints. For the first couple of months, I was HUNGRY. All. the. time!! That has subsided somewhat, but I'm also really quite tired all the time. I'm still trying to get used to the idea that it's OK that my "fat pants" don't fit anymore or that I can feel my tummy touch my shirt at times.

I've made a follow-up appointment for August 17th so we can find out if we're having a boy or a girl. What is your guess? Do you think we'll have a boy or a girl?

Sunday, July 12, 2009

The Fruits of our Labors

It seems like it's been a long journey, but we finally harvested some cucumbers. They taste good, but we figure they cost us about $25 each at this point.

About two weeks ago, we noticed that our tomato plants and beans had suddenly been given an unwelcome 'haircut' of sorts. When Andy noticed hoof prints in the dirt, we identified the culprits as deer! It's hard for me to comprehend that we live about 15 minutes
from the beach, but we can have deer in our backyard. To make things even more curious, I spotted a small crab on our back patio a couple days ago!! A CRAB!!

We seem to have put a stop to the midnight salad bar free for all by setting up some orange mesh construction fencing around the door to our garden and along the shorter sides of the fence.


The good news is that although our butternut squash seem to be taking over the entire garden, we are starting to see several squash growing. We had to build a trellis in order to keep all the vines from choking out our tomatoes and other plants. We also have a few very small watermelon starting to grow.

One thing's for sure, we will be better gardeners next year. We will know to start earlier and to start seedlings at different times so that we don't get a barrage of any one type of vegetable all at once.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Germany


My first impressions of Germany were that everything is so nice! There was a line of Mercedes Benz Taxis at the airport and Germany being the home of the autobahn, I felt like our driver had been told to "step on it". After being in Amsterdam and Paris where there were lots of old, ornate, beautiful buildings, it was quite obvious that Germany had been devastated by the war (they estimate that 80% of Munich was destroyed by WWII) and since they had to start over from scratch, everything just looks so new!!

We spent our first full day working. Andy met
with the branch office and I worked on finishing up some things for an SEC audit we had while I was gone (that's a whole 'nother story). We finished up work stuff early that afternoon and we went to the Numphenburg Castle. It's a SPRAWLING castle on several acres of beautiful gardens. Interspersed among the gardens are various 'cottages' that were once used for parties, hunting retreats, meditation etc. We walked
around for a couple hours and we probably saw about half of all that there was to see.

We then went to a nearby beer garden to have dinner. This is where we saw the meeting of the "Finer Things Club" I posted about earlier. There were several vendors all selling various German foods like sauerkraut, bratwursts, pretzels, rhubarb cake etc and of course, there was beer. Lots of beer. We saw shelves and shelves of beer mugs and there were hundreds of tables
and chairs set out. I can only imagine what that place must be like on the weekends or during Oktoberfest. Fortunately for us, things were pretty mellow that night and we were able to eat in relative peace. We tried a few of the classic German dishes and left without having even tried any beer. Shocking, I know.


The next day, we took a walking tour of Munich and saw the Glockenspiel, the Frauenkirche (Church of our Lady), an outdoor market, the new and old town hall, the Church of St. Peter, etc. along the way, we saw the most adorable kid lederhosen.

That afternoon, we went to Dachau which was a concentration camp during World War II. Since then, it has been turned into a memorial. When you first walk into the camp, you see an open area where they would have morning and
evening roll calls. To the left were the barracks and to the right there was a main building where prisoners were first brought to be disinfected, shaved and given their uniforms. It's reported that
this camp was built to hold about 6,000 prisoners, but we know there were many more people there at various times through out the war. Overcrowding was a major problem and the conditions were quite deplorable. Prisoners had thin uniforms and shoes in the winter and the summers can get to be quite hot as well. Most of the prisoners at Dachau were males.

We were able to walk through the barracks where they had reconstructed bunk beds, bathrooms and locker rooms. I say
reconstructed because when the camp was ultimately shut down, the buildings were in such bad condition (infested with rats and diseases, warped wood, no foundations, etc.) that they had to just get rid of them.

We also walked through the prison cells where people were tortured...kept in spaces so small that they couldn't stand up, kept in the dark for so long that when they did finally go outside, their retinas would burst, kept in extreme heat or cold, etc.


Dachau is one of three remaining camps that has a crematorium--
two, actually. One had two furnaces and the other had four. It was extremely sobering to walk through the disinfection room, the holding room, the "shower" room where thousands of people were gassed to death, another holding room and finally to the crematorium. I had to force myself to take it in as the structure it was...and not to think about what happened there. It was really creepy, but it was an experience I will always remember. Our guide was really good and told us a few stories from those who survived.

Sorry the video is so hard to follow. We were in a hurry to leave and catch the bus so I had to film while walking. In the video, I said that the main building was where they manufactured metals. It was also where prisoners were first brought, disinfected, issued uniforms etc. Behind that building is the jail cell where some of the more severe forms of torture took place.

The prevailing concept I came away from Dachau with was that Germany has taken a huge step in the right direction simply by recognizing that the Holocaust took place and the injustices that people carried out against one another. Even as we were touring the camp, there was a group of German soldiers who were also on a tour. Our guide explained that high school students, military etc are encouraged to come to the concentration camp memorials so they can learn about what took place there. There are countries all over the world that have commited gross attrocities (the US included...i.e. Guantanimo). Take, for example, China and the Cultural Revolution. People do not want to talk about their experiences during the Cultural Revolution--either because it was too painful or because they are afraid of being censured by the government. I hasten to point out that while China has come a long way in terms of restoring a sense of humanity, it still struggles in terms of human rights issues. As with individuals, the first step in correcting a problem is to recognize that there is one. That's why I am glad that Germany has preserved the camps as memorials and encourages visitors to learn about what took place there. Simply recognizing the faults of a country or an individual is the first step in preventing such atrocities from hapening in the future.

The next day, we returned home.